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Barbara GRAHAM
Barbara Morton Graham, known to some of her friends
as BAT, was born on April 13, 1935 in Alliance, OH to George E.
Morton and Ethel O. Derry George was a radar engineer with Ratheon.
Ethel played saxophone, fronting for a band in the 1920's, then
later worked for a printing company. Barbara was their only child.
Barb left this earthly realm on Sunday, April 20, 2014.
She married James C. Graham on August 15,1954 in
Cleveland, Ohio. They lived in Ohio, Azusa, CA, and San Anselmo
CA; and had two sons: Anthony Crawford Graham and James Chase
Graham.
Barbara created a new home with Marcia Gallas, (originally
from North Miami Beach, Florida), in May, 1984. They resided in
Novato CA, Greenville, SC, and Cincinnati (Blue Ash) OH. They
were married on September 8, 2003 in Toronto, Ontario, Canada.
Barbara was a pre-med student at Kent State University and then
years later, attended the College of Marin where she took numerous
classes, most notably chemistry, orchestra and band. She belonged
to a number of bands and community orchestras and worked as an
orchestra manager for Marin Civic Light Opera. Barbara took up
the trade of industrial electrician in Greenville and worked for
several companies including Fluor Fernald in Ross, OH.
Barbara delighted in all things nature. She especially
loved trees, bats, her cats and a good thunderstorm! She was also
a musician, having played violin, alto saxophone, French Horn,
banjo, ukulele and viola. She was an accomplished, award winning
sailor, racing her prized Thunderbird Sailboat,"Ethel O",
to victories on San Francisco Bay, and was a member of the Motor
Maids women's motorcycle riding organization. She loved to ride
her Kawaski Vulcan 750 motorcycle she dubbed, "Sophie"
and rode right up until October, 2013.
Barbara touched so many lives with her selfless
acts of kindness. Her wit and wisdom will be sorely missed.
Barbara is survived by her loving wife Marcia Gallas
of Blue Ash, OH, sons Tony Graham and wife Vangie of Neshkoro,
WI, James Graham and wife Peggy of Boulder Creek, CA, and grandchildren,
Nikki Patten of Queen Creek, AZ, Kyle Graham of Tempe, AZ , Triona
Graham and Brigid Graham of Vallejo, CA, Keiva Hummel of Oakland,
CA, and Lauren Katz of Boulder Creek, CA. Cousins Charles Derry
and husband Thomas Kohn of Palm Springs, CA, Denise Preucel and
Max Gast of Cleveland, OH.
In lieu of flowers, please send a donation in Barbara's
name to Hospice of Cincinnati. A celebration of Barbara's life
in story and song will be held on Saturday, May 31st at 2PM at
St. John's Unitarian Church. 320 Resor Avenue Cincinnati, OH 45220.
Friends will be encouraged to tell stories about Barb (Bat). Refreshments
will be served after the memorial as we continue to celebrate
Barb's life on earth.
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Please email condolences to grunnfh@gmail.com.
Once received they will be posted below:
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Heaven has gained a very Special
Angel. We will miss you and we'll always carry our Wind Sister
with us in our hearts. May God carry her family in the palm
of his hand. -Lois Smith and "Vivian" |
The following is a note I wrote to Barbara Graham.
She was called away before I got it mailed:
Dear Bat,
I just want you to know that I think about you every day and
how much I treasure the time we have spent together - getting
lost on the train in London, riding in a gondola in Las Vegas,
nearly getting arrested in Marblehead, the boat tour in Chicago,
the birds "bombing" your car in Branson, two visits
to Noank and best of all; the wedding of you and Marcia in
Toronto. I'm so glad that you were there for some of my best
adventures.
Love, Andrea
(goodbye precious friend)
Marcia, wishing for you peace and comfort through this terrible
time.
Andrea Lithgow
Noank, CT |
Barb, we are going to miss you. You were one
tough cookie. The first time we ever met you, you came striding
across the softball field in your shorts, knee socks and softball
shoes; you had an infectious smile on your face like the whole
world made you happy. There are many other things in your
life that we remember but that picture, that confident woman,
we will never forget.
Julie and Peggy |
Marcia, Your caring made Bat's final days, and
the transition to the other side, so full of your love that
she left our world with a heart filled with peace and a smile.
My wish for you is to wrap yourself in the memories of Bat
as you remember her.
To Tony and James, Your mother was one of a kind and loved
dearly by so many. You and your families are in my thoughts.
I hope you can find comfort in these rough days.
Janet (Bird) Tuhey |
The Virginia Motor Maids are so
sadden over the loss of Barb Graham. Its not farewell,
its until we meet again!!! Please know that the Virginia
Motor Maids have the family in our thoughts and prayers during
this very difficult time. - With love the Virginia Motor Maids
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